TIPS FOR CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER:
1.Start the relationship as friends first and then grow it into a relationship.This is often the best way to start a relationship,because you get to know and understand each other quickly and more easily as friends,more than when you start your relationship off immediately with dating.Friendship makes you bond more easily and quickly.
2.Choose a partner that you cannot live without and not one that you can live without:that is,he or she must be an individual that is very important to your day to day activity as in, he or she is a motivational factor or a stimulant that you just must have to keep on going despite the odds and obstacles that may present them selfs before you,once you think of he or she you are up and running again,in other words he/she is a driving factor in your life.
3.Trust and truthfulness: Many relationships are built on falsehood that is,either the man or woman playing the other or even both playing each other,any relationship that is to last long and that is going to stand the test of time must be built on trust and truthfulness at all time no matter the circumstance.Both parties must not harbor any secret either in the past or in the future,any couple that is living in holy matrimony and is harboring secrets from each other will always have problem in there marriage because at one point in time secrets have a tendency to leak out and surface eventually.if you want to choose the right date or lover you must look out for trust and truth in him/her before agreeing to start a relationship with him/her.
ONLINE DATING:
In online dating, you take control of the first shot to initially impress another person. How? Well, by providing a picture in your profile. Physical appearance is really important and it plays a huge role in online dating. Besides, you do not want to talk to ghosts.
Some people may think it is irrelevant to show their online dates how they look. Perhaps, they are embarrassed of how they look. They fear the initial reaction of rejection upon seeing their picture, and they want daters to see within first and ignore physical features. Others may think that it is not a safe thing to do or scared of being stalked by unlikable individuals. Others may also think it is not really important at all. They think their profile can already impress and attract individuals of their preference. Few seem to have no recent picture at all. Besides, would it not be funny to post your high school picture when you're already past 40?
You must realize that posting a picture in an online dating site is a big leap towards finding your dream date. Physical appearance is important. I am not saying that you need to have that Angelina-Jolie lips to have a Brad Pitt-like hot date. My point is that a picture is very important because it shows the other person what you look like. You do not have to be the ideal beautiful girl or handsome guy to get a nice picture or to let other daters contact you. A nice picture is any picture that is taken when you look your best. It is something recent, not deceiving and vulgar. It may look simple to you but may exude a certain kind of elegance for other daters.
Even if your profile is outstanding, many people will question why you have not posted a picture. They will start to make speculations, bad judgments, or remove you from their list of prospects. And, of course, you do not want such things to happen.
Deceiving online daters may at times post another person's picture. This does not sound good, especially when you find yourself falling in love with the other person you have been communicating with already. Worst, if the feeling is mutual, this is definitely a big problem when you meet up.
Any explanation afterwards will not help you get out of the situation or get back to that mutual attraction. Besides your physical appearance integrity also counts in online dating.